Getting Sick as an Entrepreneur

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This week was the worst.

Getting back into the swing of things after vacation is never easy, but this week’s welcome home hit me like a ton of bricks.

Just last Friday, I was on a plane flying back to Philadelphia after eight wonderful days in Ireland. 

I felt refreshed and rejuvenated. Heartbroken to leave the beautiful country of Ireland, but excited to return home to see what the rest of fall has to offer. Eager to get back to my business and blog after some time and space away from email inboxes and client work.

After a relaxing weekend recovering from jet lag, I eased my way into Monday with a yoga class, time spent clearing out various email inboxes and making a massive to-do list for the week.

I felt good. I felt in control. 

I went to bed on Monday night with grand plans to do all the things the rest of the week.

And then I woke up on Tuesday and I felt like crap.

Getting sick as an entrepreneur is the absolute worst, but it's a reality all business owners need to face.

It all went downhill

I woke up on Tuesday morning with a massive cold: the kind where there never seems to be enough tissues, eyes that won’t stop watering and a general feeling of fogginess that prevented me from getting anything done.

And from there, my week went completely down the drain.

My motivation. My drive. My ability to think clearly. My spirit. 

I spent most of Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday afternoon in bed. I hated that I couldn’t work, hated that I felt so foggy and frazzled.

Despite my best intentions and plans for the week, my to-do list went out the window.

It was out of my control.

Getting sick as an entrepreneur

There’s a catch-22 to everything, right?

As a solo business owner, I don’t have a set number of sick days. I don’t have to text my boss when I don’t feel well to ask to stay home and rest. I can take a nap in the middle of the afternoon without consulting my client. In fact, if I don’t feel like sharing, no one even has to know I’m not feeling well.

But also, as a solo business owner, if I’m not working, I’m not being paid. And this week, not a whole lot of work got done, leading to some rising stress levels, and an extra-long list of things to accomplish next week.

Luckily, I have processes in place (and an amazing, amazing team member) so even though I was out of commission, JL&Co continued to chug along (albeit a bit slower than normal), but it didn’t feel great to let go of my plans for the week.

No doubt, getting sick as an entrepreneur isn’t easy.

Time to rest

At the end of the day, even in the throes of it all, I knew it would be better to focus on resting and recovering vs. pushing through and completing crappy work, no matter how frustrated I felt at the time.

Life, right?

Reality check 

Yes, in the grand scheme of things, this week wasn’t *really* the worst.

There are folks in the world dealing with many more hardships than a minor illness derailing a work week.

But still. I always strive to share honestly here, and I wanted to let you know that for me, this was a crappy week.

Crappy weeks happen, and that’s OK.

I’m already starting to turn a corner, and looking forward to drinking some extra coffee next week to power through and get myself caught up once again.

Ugh, how do you deal when you’re not feeling your best? Also, if you’ve had a crappy week, let’s commisserate. Share in the comments below.

*Photo via Pixabay

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Almost Everything You Need to Know About Planning a Trip to Ireland

It’s finally here! I’m off to Ireland tonight.

This will be my first time back in Europe since I left my heart in Rome during study abroad back in 2009!

I have to admit: Ireland wasn’t really on my radar (Eeks! Don’t hate me!) It’s certainly not like I was *against* visiting Ireland in any way, shape or form, but rather, I didn’t know much about the country, despite growing up in an Irish family.

When my boyfriend Tim and I started dating a little over a year ago, we talked about all the places we want to travel, and for him, Ireland was #1 on his list. So when it came time to plan our first big trip together, it was a pretty easy decision to settle on Ireland. 

Initially, we planned to tackle both Ireland AND London, England, but ultimately decided with only eight full travel days, it would serve us best to focus on one country.

Read on to learn more about our planning process, packing list, how we’ll spend our time in Ireland and what I’ve learned about planning a trip with a significant other.

Here’s everything (well, almost everything) you need to know about planning a trip to Ireland. 

Determining our route

Since I wasn’t super familiar with the country, determining our route was the most challenging part of this process.

Naturally, I turned to Twitter, and was instantly overwhelmed by the dozens of recommendations for places to visit. I quickly learned that while folks do love the big cities like Dublin and Galway, the real charm is in the small countryside towns, so we made a point to include a healthy mix of both in our itinerary.

A big question to consider when visiting Ireland and planning your route is if you want to drive or use public transportation. Much of my research highly recommended driving to be able to do your own thing and go off the beaten path, so we made the decision to rent a car!

However, remember: the Irish drive on the right side of the road, so consider this before you make a decision! I’m very nervous about driving in Ireland, but I hear it’s not as bad as it sounds. If you’re renting a car and you can’t drive stick shift, make sure you choose an automatic car — the default there is manual, so double check before you book! It’s also more expensive to rent an automatic.

After reading dozens of blogs about traveling to Ireland, we finally settled on a route. It’s ambitious, but we want to squeeze in as much sightseeing and as much of the country as possible in our short time abroad.

Take a look!

Our trip begins and ends in Dublin, so as you can see, we’ll loop around just about half of the country in eight or so days. In my planning, I saw many different variations of this itinerary, including doing the trip counter-clockwise, rather than clockwise, like we’re planning to do.

In any case, this route allows us time in two big cities (Dublin and Galway), plus lots of time traversing the countryside and exploring some of the smaller countryside towns. 

Crowdsourcing recommendations

I’m a huge planner, and I have a pretty specific approach to preparing for a trip. 

First, I turn to Facebook and Twitter and ask for recommendations. I was blown away by how many recommendations I got! This seriously helped with planning and shaping our trip.

I then drop all of those recommendations into a Google document.

For this trip, I separated recommendations out by spots in Dublin, and anywhere outside the major city. I include brief notes from those recommendations (i.e. “get there early”, “touristy, but fun”) and I put a * next to something multiple people recommended.

From there, we did our own research, of course, and figured out loosely some of our “must-dos” and left the rest of our itinerary pretty open to be able to have some flexibility.

Shaping our itinerary

Now that you’ve seen our route, more specifically, here’s where we’ll be spending each day, and some of what we’ll be doing while we’re there!

Days 1-2: Dublin

We fly direct into Dublin out of Philadelphia at night and arrive early in the morning. We’ll have two full days to explore! We’re staying at the newly-renovated Sandymount Hotel, just a few minutes drive outside the city center.

All we have planned so far is a ride on the City Sightseeing Dublin hop-on-hop-off bus  to get the lay of the land and a tour of the Guinness Factory. I also would love to visit Trinity College (not so much to see the Book of Kells, but to see The Long Room with more than 200,000 books. Some say it inspired a setting in Harry Potter!), wander St. Patrick’s Cathedral and check out The Temple Bar Pub (come on, I’m always a Temple Owl, at heart).

Tim also requested we see a “football match”, so we purchased tickets to a Shamrock Rovers game on our second afternoon in Dublin.

Day 3: Kilkenny and Kinsale

On Day 3, we rent a car (wish us luck!) and drive to Kilkenny Castle. If I’m going to Ireland, there has to be at least one castle in the itinerary, right?! Then we head to Kinsale, a colorful town on the southern coast of Ireland. We’ll stay at my first bed and breakfast ever — The Desmond House — #1 rated on TripAdvisor, too!

Super excited to soak up that Irish hospitality!

Day 4: Dingle

On Day 4, we’ll explore Kinsale a bit more and then head off to Dingle, a small port town. I’m a beach gal, so I want to get a taste of Ireland’s beaches, even though the weather will be a bit chilly!

We’ll stay at the Cill Bhreac House, another super charming B&B with bay views!

Day 5: Doolin

We leave Dingle and head to Doolin, a small town highly recommended by bloggers and Instagrammers. We also chose Doolin because of it’s close proximity to the Cliffs of Moher.

We’ll stay at Cullinan’s Restaurant and Guesthouse, another highly-ranked B&B on TripAdvisor.

Days 6-7: Galway

Of course, you can’t come to Ireland without seeing the Cliffs of Moher, so we’ll take that in before heading to Galway!

I’ve heard rave reviews about Galway, so I’m thrilled we’ll be spending two nights here at the Nox Hotel, a super chic property just a few minutes from the city center.

Day 8: Dublin and then back home

On our final day, we head back to Dublin to return our car and spend one more night in the city! We’ll stay at the Clayton Hotel Dublin Airport, and then hop on our plane early in the morning to come back to Philadelphia.

Like I said, it’s a very ambitious itinerary, but geographically, it makes sense and allows us to see a lot of Ireland in a short period of time.

Packing for Ireland

I’ll be the first to admit: I tend to overpack. Hey, I like to have options!

It’s a bit challenging to pack for 60-degree weather in the middle of a hot Philadelphia August, but here’s what ended up in my suitcase. Let’s hope it works out!

-3 pairs of jeans
-3 pairs of leggings
-2 jackets (1 light and 1 a bit heavier)
-1 raincoat
-2 umbrellas!
-1 dress
-Several sweaters
-2 chambray tops
-A few long sleeve lighter tops (all about layering!)
-2 nicer “going out tops”
-3 scarves
-Tall boots (rainproof)
-A pair of Sperrys
-2 pairs of walking shoes
-A pair of flats
-Underwear, socks and bras, obviously

Planning a trip with a significant other

As someone who mostly travels with family, I have zero experience planning a major trip with a significant other. 

Tim and I have traveled to closer destinations together, but never something as massive as a European adventure. 

It has been a fun process, but also a learning experience, as Tim is very go-with-the-flow and if you know me at all, you know I’m quite the opposite. I like to think we bring out the best in each other though; Tim helps me to take a more carefree approach to travel, and I know despite my craziness and level of attention to detail, he appreciates my organization.

If you’re planning a trip with your significant other, here are a few things to keep in mind:

  • Create a budget. As soon as Tim and I booked our trip, I created a budget spreadsheet to track who purchases what to make sure we evenly split the costs to keep things fair.
  • Figure out your must-dos. With only so much time, it was important that Tim and I talk over what each of us *really* wanted to do in Ireland. Tim’s must-dos were a round of golf and seeing a football match. My priorities were castles and exploring small seaside towns. Knowing these priorities, we were able to shape an itinerary that includes stuff we both really want to do.
  • Make a plan together. Tim and I both wanted equal ownership in planning this trip. We spent an entire Saturday sitting at my kitchen table reading our guidebook, checking out reviews online and mapping out our route and itinerary. It was a long day, but at the end of it, I truly feel like we built a trip we both really want to go on.
  • Divide the work. After making an initial plan, Tim and I divvied up the work of making decisions and booking. Tim took the lead on booking our hotels, whereas I opted to figure out our B&B accommodations. I spent hours poring over TripAdvisor reviews, whereas Tim booked our Dublin and Galway hotels in no time at all. I had fun seeking out our B&Bs, and I know Tim was happy to make a quick decision on his part of the planning process. Tim was in charge of the car rental and I took the lead on booking a few tours.

Away we go!

And we’re off! If you have any last-minute recommendations, be sure to share them in the comments below. 

I’ll be back with a full report when we return.

Have you ever planned a trip to Ireland? Tell me your approach to vacation planning in the comments.